We humans have a natural tendency to want to go our own way, follow our desires, and seek an apparent freedom from all constraints. We often believe that this freedom will bring us happiness and fulfillment. But is this really what is best for us? And is the freedom we seek really true freedom?
If we in our families have not set up any frameworks, rules and values that we follow, chaos will quickly ensue. If there is no one to tell and show us how to talk to each other, behave, what to stay away from, but let the children do as they please, we are not guiding them in a good way.
If all frameworks and boundaries are lost, the consequences can be extensive. We quickly find ourselves in unwanted situations and often find ourselves in places where we really don't want to be.
The Bible says that we are created male and female, and that we should become one, have children, and build a family. By recognizing that there are two genders, and that sexual activity and childbearing should occur within the framework of marriage, we can reduce the confusion surrounding different “gender categories” and potentially prevent unwanted pregnancies and abortions.
Is freedom to do what one desires? In John 8:32, Jesus says that when we know the truth, it is the truth that truly sets us free.
God’s care for us is shown through the guidelines he has provided, which are designed to help us live meaningful lives. His arrangements are eternal, and just as relevant today. By following his guidance, we can discover a deeper freedom and a greater security than we could ever find on our own.
God's arrangements and frameworks are not meant to limit us, but to protect us and lead us to a life of true freedom and peace.